There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful, and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer, but in the end, our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves. "YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS TO ACCEPT THE REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU ARE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT LOVE AND DEDICATION TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING."
Don't let your heart run your life. Be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.
'IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT THE TEARS WASH AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST HAS LEFT YOU. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU.' And when it does, pray that it stays and lasts a lifetime.
A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man, when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love that she lost. A man who makes promises with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them. It's true that love can wait forever, but it is crazy to stubbornly hope for someone who doesn't even care or understand how we feel.
Loving someone is never a sin. It is what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin. Don't think only of your feelings, for real love doesn't have a place for selfish people. When there is love, there is always sacrifice.
When we love someone, we don't easily give up on that person. Even if we get hurt badly, we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't hurt. It is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance for the things we have done. And when are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered.
'DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN, AND GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVE WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE.'
Just like anything else, our love grows weak and extent. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies. 'GOD WAKES US UP IN THE MIDST OF A STORM TO TEACH US A LESSON. HE TAKES AWAY PEOPLE WE LOVE, SO WE CAN LEARN TO VALUE LOVE ITSELF. HE MAKES US CRY SO HARD SO WE CAN SEE CLEARLY WHEN WE OPEN OUR EYES. HE MAKES US BITTER SO WE CAN REALIZE THERE IS NO GENUINE HAPPINESS IF WE THINK ONLY OF OUR NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS.'
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