If you have 3 suitors...

If you have 3 suitors,
Good catch, personality attractive.
Good job, stable to support a family
Have money, savings and investment.

What is the most qualification to you to choose the best
one?

Pick the one who makes you feel happiest,
who always does what he says he will,
who remembers your birthday and your favourite colour,

who knows that a word of kindness is worth more than a word
of criticism,
who is able to talk about his feelings even when they make
him seem weak or vulnerable,

Actually, I'm afraid it's even simpler than that:
if you find it difficult to choose between them, the honest
truth is that you don't really want any of them. My mother
gave me that advice btw and I find it works.

Let them go. Pick the next one to come along, the one that
you KNOW is the best in the world, who you can't live
without even for another day or another second.

Attractiveness fades with age
Jobs get lost, and stability becomes boring over time
Someone who values money may be insecure and value it more
than relationship